The dilemma Last year I found out that my husband of 20 years had been having an affair for a few months. It came as a terrible shock – I cried and cried for weeks. When asked to choose between her and me, he chose her and left me. I kept on crying.
https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2020/feb/09/my-husband-left-me-for-another-woman-but-now-wants-me-back-mariella-frostrup
https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2020/feb/09/my-husband-left-me-for-another-woman-but-now-wants-me-back-mariella-frostrup